Sacrificial steel

Below a yellowed tree,
weeds fringe the drivewayâs
borders. Anoles pump.
They jut, and the bigger
lizards skitter along
the yardâs edge. While
daylightâs needles stitch
threads the spathodea,
seven De Kayâs brown snakes4
slue like scarves through
the new ivy. Though
itâs already five oâclock,
I havenât heard from him
yet. Not this week.
Not this month. Heâs
â
gone with no word.
So far, silence. Green
quiet. Someone next door
opens a second-floor
window, and a toddler
shrieks, shatters the still air.
The childâs cry skylarks
the mimosa, shrinks,
then dissipates through
the eveningâs haze. I shake
out our wet clothes.
In the breeze, the clothesline
â
snaps my red blouse
as it dances, my empty sleeves
waving in the wind to no one.
â Cate McGowan
weeds fringe the drivewayâs
borders. Anoles pump.
They jut, and the bigger
lizards skitter along
the yardâs edge. While
daylightâs needles stitch
threads the spathodea,
seven De Kayâs brown snakes4
slue like scarves through
the new ivy. Though
itâs already five oâclock,
I havenât heard from him
yet. Not this week.
Not this month. Heâs
â
gone with no word.
So far, silence. Green
quiet. Someone next door
opens a second-floor
window, and a toddler
shrieks, shatters the still air.
The childâs cry skylarks
the mimosa, shrinks,
then dissipates through
the eveningâs haze. I shake
out our wet clothes.
In the breeze, the clothesline
â
snaps my red blouse
as it dances, my empty sleeves
waving in the wind to no one.
â Cate McGowan
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The broken mirror of creativity

Creativity is often thought of as a perfectly formed idea, something whole and complete from the start. But in reality, itâs more like the broken mirrorâfragmented, surprising, and full of unexpected reflections.
This mirror, doesnât show whatâs around it. Instead, it reflects the sky, turning a forgotten piece of glass into something bigger. It challenges perception, forcing us to see the world differently. And isnât that what creativity is all about?
Too often, we search for inspiration in predictable placesâinside structured processes, within known boundaries. But real creativity comes when we look at things from a fresh perspective, when we embrace imperfection, and when we allow ourselves to be surprised. Sometimes, the most powerful ideas come from the fragments of something else, from mistakes, from what we werenât even looking for.
Next time you feel stuck, take a step back. Shift your perspective. Find beauty in whatâs broken. Creativity isnât about perfectionâitâs about discovery. And sometimes, the best ideas are hiding in the cracks, waiting to reflect something unexpected.
This mirror, doesnât show whatâs around it. Instead, it reflects the sky, turning a forgotten piece of glass into something bigger. It challenges perception, forcing us to see the world differently. And isnât that what creativity is all about?
Too often, we search for inspiration in predictable placesâinside structured processes, within known boundaries. But real creativity comes when we look at things from a fresh perspective, when we embrace imperfection, and when we allow ourselves to be surprised. Sometimes, the most powerful ideas come from the fragments of something else, from mistakes, from what we werenât even looking for.
Next time you feel stuck, take a step back. Shift your perspective. Find beauty in whatâs broken. Creativity isnât about perfectionâitâs about discovery. And sometimes, the best ideas are hiding in the cracks, waiting to reflect something unexpected.
On repeat đ
â Study the world
â Respect your feelings
â Listen to your intuition
â Talk to strangers
â Be gentle to each other
â Be aware of your surroundings
â Be kind
â Share your knowledge
â Keep learning
â Continue to improve yourself
â Respect your feelings
â Listen to your intuition
â Talk to strangers
â Be gentle to each other
â Be aware of your surroundings
â Be kind
â Share your knowledge
â Keep learning
â Continue to improve yourself
The quiet tyranny of clichés

In the toughest of times or during the most difficult conversations, the impulse is often to search for convenient expressions that make a situation feel more manageable.âš"It is what it is!â âIt could be worse!â âDamned if you do, damned if you donât!ââš
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Ukiyo [u-key-yo] â (n) living in the moment, detached from the bothers of life.
New year, new me (?)

As the clock resets to a new year, Iâm embracing the spirit of transformation with a refreshed website. Why the change? Because, just like you, I believe in starting fresh, redefining goals, and presenting our best selves to the world.
This refresh isnât the finish line; itâs the starting point. Just like the concept of ânew year, new meâ my redesigned website is a commitment to continuous growth and evolution.
This refresh isnât the finish line; itâs the starting point. Just like the concept of ânew year, new meâ my redesigned website is a commitment to continuous growth and evolution.